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Survivors & Caregivers

A roadmap for surviving spouses and caregivers

Losing someone is hard enough. This page walks you through the money, health and support benefits VA offers survivors and the people who care for veterans — one step at a time, all free to apply for.

1. First steps after the loss

  1. 1. Report the death to VA

    Call VA at 800-827-1000 to report the death. They stop future payments and tell you what to apply for. You will need the veteran's Social Security number and a copy of the death certificate.

  2. 2. Get copies of the death certificate

    Order several certified copies from the funeral home or your state's vital records office — banks, VA and others each ask for one.

  3. 3. Gather the veteran's papers

    DD-214 or proof of service, marriage certificate, and children's birth certificates. These prove who qualifies for survivor benefits.

  4. 4. Ask about burial and memorial benefits

    VA can help pay for burial costs, a headstone or marker, and a Presidential Memorial Certificate.

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2. Monthly money benefits

DIC and Survivors Pension are monthly payments that belong to you. You do not pay taxes on them, and no one can charge you a fee to apply — an accredited Veterans Service Officer helps for free.

  • Dependency and Indemnity Compensation: monthly payments for surviving spouses, and in some cases children or parents, when a veteran died from a service-related condition or was totally disabled.

  • A monthly payment for low-income surviving spouses and children of wartime veterans.

  • The month of death payment — the veteran's last monthly benefit payment is not kept by VA.

  • Burial allowance, government headstone or marker, burial flag and memorial certificate.

3. Health care, education and your own well-being

Caring for a veteran — or carrying on after one — takes a toll. These benefits cover your health insurance, your family's education, and give you an actual break.

If you are struggling right now

Call 988 and press 1 — the Veterans Crisis Line is for veterans and their families too, including surviving spouses. It is free, 24/7 and confidential.

Watch out for survivor-benefit scams

  • It is free to apply for every benefit on this page. Never pay anyone to file for DIC or a pension.
  • VA will never call and demand a fee, gift card or your bank details to "release" a payment.
  • Never share your VA.gov or ID.me password with anyone.
  • Only VA-accredited representatives may charge for help after an initial claim — check them on the VA's accreditation search.

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